Ask Me the Question You're Afraid to Ask
Staying in Faith When Your Body Doesn't Do What Everybody Else's Does
He gave Jacob the blessing and the limp — and both were mercy.
What do you do with faith when your body won't cooperate — when you wake up every morning to the same diagnosis, the same limitations, the same questions nobody around you seems comfortable answering?
In this eight-session journey, Pastor Nicole Washington walks you through the honest, unvarnished questions people living with chronic illness, disability, and bodily limitation are afraid to voice out loud — and meets every one of them with Scripture, compassion, and the unshakeable truth that your body changed but your worth did not.
Go Ahead and Ask Me
·The Body Was God's IdeaYour body is not a mistake. Before the fall, before the diagnosis, before the limitation — God formed a body from dust and breathed life into it. His design was intentional, and His purposes for your body have never been revoked.
Scripture: Genesis 2:7
Nobody Holds a Funeral for This
·Permission to Grieve What You LostWhen your body changes permanently, you lose things that don't get acknowledged — the ability to do simple tasks, the life you planned, the person you used to be. Scripture gives you full permission to name that loss and grieve it.
Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1–4
What Did I Do to Deserve This?
·Jesus Answers the Blame QuestionThe disciples saw a man born blind and asked whose sin caused it. Jesus' answer dismantled every assumption about sickness and blame — and His words still speak directly to anyone who has ever wondered if their body is punishment.
Scripture: John 9:1–3
They Keep Asking What I Can Still Do
·Your Worth Was Never Your FunctionWhen your body won't cooperate, people start measuring you by what you can still produce. But the Bible says your worth was never located in your function — it's in the treasure God placed inside you.
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 4:7
Everybody Else Still Gets To
·When Jesus Refused to ComparePeter looked at John and asked, 'What about him?' Jesus' response was blunt: 'What is that to you? You follow Me.' When your body keeps you from what everyone else can do, Jesus calls you out of comparison and back to your own path.
Scripture: John 21:20–22
He Walked Away Blessed and Limping
·The Blessing and the LimpJacob wrestled with God all night and refused to let go until he was blessed. He got the blessing — and a limp that never went away. And both were mercy. Your limp and your blessing may come from the same encounter.
Scripture: Genesis 32:24–31
I Have to Do This Again Tomorrow
·Mercy That Cannot Be StockpiledChronic illness means facing the same battle every single morning. Jeremiah wrote that God's mercies are new every morning — not because yesterday's mercy ran out, but because tomorrow's mercy is stored up and waiting for you when you get there.
Scripture: Lamentations 3:22–23
Somebody Is About to Sit Where You Sat
·God Comforted You for Someone ElseThe comfort God has given you in your hardest seasons was never meant to stop with you. Someone is coming behind you who needs exactly what you learned in the dark — and God chose you to be the one who can reach them.
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 1:3–4
"He gave Jacob the blessing and the limp — and both were mercy."
YOUR BODY CHANGED. YOUR WORTH DID NOT.
Nicole Washington Ministries — "Where God's Word Transforms Lives."
